RaMBaM on what is expected of a Jewish Husband
"Similarly, our Sages commanded that a man honor his wife more than his own person, and love her as he loves his own person. If he has financial resources, he should offer her benefits in accordance with his resources. He should not cast a superfluous measure of fear over her. He should talk with her gently, being neither sad nor angry."
Mishneh Torah, Hilchot Ishut (Laws of Women) 15:19